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Tom Skilling

Paterson LifePlan Guide

Tom has been in ministry for 15 years, helping people discover and pursue God’s unique purpose for their lives. As a LifePlan Guide, Tom is able to combine his talents in strategic thinking and leadership with his passion for helping people grow.

Tom is the Director of Community Groups at Ada Bible Church in Grand Rapids, Michigan. He has been married to his wife Jessalyn for 10 years and has two children, Madelyn and Matthew. He enjoys staying active by running and playing soccer, reading or listening to the latest leadership books or podcasts, watching Michigan Wolverines football, and most of all, adventuring with his family.

You can learn more about Tom at his website:

Additional Paterson Offerings

LifePlan for Individuals or Couples

We use proven tools and questions to lead you to clear perspective, the discovery of truth, and then create a plan and map to move towards your desired future vision.

LifePlan within Organizations

Contact us to learn more about how LifePlans can benefit your valued employees within your organization.

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LifePlan OnDemand with Tom

Allowing you access to the power of the Paterson Process from anywhere, and at any time, LifePlan OnDemand is a self-guided process that uses many of the essential tools of the full, 2-day experience. A series of 33 videos and a beautiful, linen-bound workbook will guide you step-by-step. When you’re ready, your process will conclude with a 90-minute call with a Paterson-Certified Facilitator. You’ll gain helpful insight about who you are and how you can make your greatest impact.

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We believe in

Tom’s ability to guide you well.

Get the FREE Thinking Wavelength Tool.

This core Paterson Process tool is used in both LifePlan and StratOp. Experience the power of the tool for yourself by trying this version from our LifePlan Launch offering.